Well, these are odd times, aren’t they? I used to write a regular blog, years ago, when I lived in Namibia as a VSO volunteer. I had some mental health problems that writing regularly helped me to deal with. Now I have a blog that I haven’t written in nearly enough and times are stressful, so I thought, why not? Writing and crafting are two things that make a huge difference to my mental wellbeing, so why not combine the two in the way I’ve always wanted to?
I’m wondering where you all are at the moment, and what your current worries are? For me, my family and I moved into a new house last weekend. Almost immediately my husband, who is the main breadwinner in our household, was put on hiatus at work as his company waited for a new project to come online. Now we are left wondering when and even if this project will happen, and as he is self-employed, he isn’t being paid. Hello, new mortgage! My silver lining from this particular scenario is that he is here right now to help us settle in, unpack the gazillion boxes that surround us, and give me a hand homeschooling our kids (7 and 10) while I continue working.
Second is homeschooling my kids. I’ve always been hugely in awe of anyone who takes this on, knowing that I couldn’t do it. Cue school closures. Oddly, I’m really looking forward to this (ask me again in a week when I have bald spots on my head and am gibbering with confusion). I get to spend more time with my little monsters, and suddenly everything in the house seems like a lesson. Biology – let’s talk about houseplants and work out how photosynthesis works. Geography – how are people in other countries living right now? How are they affected in different ways? Home economics – let’s make bread and sew some reusable bum wipes.
Third, but not least, is worry for my family. My aunt has an autoimmune condition that would make her extremely vulnerable to COVID-19, and I just don’t want to think about it. They’re self-isolating, and I’m keeping my fingers crossed. My mum and her husband are in their 70s, and while they’re pretty fit and healthy, I still worry for them. I know we’re all probably in similar situations. My reason for writing this is partly to get it down on paper, and partly to say to anyone reading, you’re not alone. Please don’t feel alone.
As for crafting, my friends Nicky and Janet from The Frome Yarn Collective (lovely yarn shop, lovely people), myself and some other local business people are going to be hosting a daily Get up and Craft session online between 9 and 10 am BST on weekday mornings. All you need is the free Zoom app. Head over to the Facebook page for details. If you’re self-isolating, you don’t need to be isolated. I can’t wait. I need to feel normal, and sitting and crafting with other people helps.
I can’t help thinking that our society is going to change hugely over the next few weeks and months, but that doesn’t mean that change is going to be all bad.
Until next time,